25-Mar-2012, 11:30 PM
Wow this discussion is bumming me out!
Listen, guys, (since I think there's only guys commenting) -- here's the deal.
There a girls out there for you. ALL of you. Remember, the world is 51% female.
You just have to remember these things:
1. Girls don't make any sense, and they never will
2. Girls care about relationships and security (well, also puppies)
3. Girls will say whatever they are feeling, whether it's the objective truth or not
4. Girls have "daddy issues"
5. You can never make a girl happy for more than a little while at a time. It's in their nature be dissatisfied. That doesn't mean they want to break up with you.
6. They are most happy when we are unhappy (or at least dissatisfied -- they can relate)
7. Having two (or 7) failed relationships does not mean you aren't meant to have a good one
8. You have "mommy issues"
9. All relationships are temporary, because eventually you die (or she does). So stop worrying about it ending and enjoy that it exists.
I'm not a relationship guru, but in my experience (and that of those around me), there is no formula for finding the right relationship (or ANY relationship). Relax and stop looking -- that's when SHE will find YOU.
Listen, guys, (since I think there's only guys commenting) -- here's the deal.
There a girls out there for you. ALL of you. Remember, the world is 51% female.
You just have to remember these things:
1. Girls don't make any sense, and they never will
2. Girls care about relationships and security (well, also puppies)
3. Girls will say whatever they are feeling, whether it's the objective truth or not
4. Girls have "daddy issues"
5. You can never make a girl happy for more than a little while at a time. It's in their nature be dissatisfied. That doesn't mean they want to break up with you.
6. They are most happy when we are unhappy (or at least dissatisfied -- they can relate)
7. Having two (or 7) failed relationships does not mean you aren't meant to have a good one
8. You have "mommy issues"
9. All relationships are temporary, because eventually you die (or she does). So stop worrying about it ending and enjoy that it exists.
I'm not a relationship guru, but in my experience (and that of those around me), there is no formula for finding the right relationship (or ANY relationship). Relax and stop looking -- that's when SHE will find YOU.
"Bad news, bad news came to me where I sleep / Turn turn turn again" - Bob Dylan